Jack & Bear’s Wedding
Jack and Bear met in August 2011 and moved in together back in 2014. Last summer, Bear proposed and this fall they're getting married. This site should help you with all the details, but if you have any other questions, just let us know. ;)
Wedding Weekend Itinerary
Friday, October 23
WELCOME MEET & GREET
Whitney Museum of American Art
4:30 – 6:00 PM / Dress Code: Come as you are
Kick off the weekend with art, drinks, and a casual gathering. - KIDS WELCOME
6:30 – 8:30 PM
Pizza and drinks and dessert in the Meatpacking District. - KIDS WELCOME
Saturday, October 24
WEDDING CELEBRATION
5:30 – 11:00 PM / Dress Code: keep scrolling for poem
Join us for a ceremony, dinner, and dancing.
Sunday, October 25
FAREWELL GATHERING
10:30 AM – 12:00 PM
We’ll gather for a relaxed send-off with food and time to connect before heading home. - KIDS WELCOME
BONUS FUN: Karaoke & Pizza
4:00 PM – 6:30 PM
If you’re still in town, swing by our neighborhood haunt for some slices and an intimate karaoke room to bring out (sing out?) your inner hipster. - KIDS WELCOME
What to Wear to our Gay Brooklyn October Wedding
Festive fancy chic.
Autumn evening sleek.
Brooklyn fashion wedding fare.
You do you (we don’t care).
Clothes are great!
Communion is better.
We love you dearly,
and can’t predict the weather.
Where to Stay
In our evaluation, you’ll find the best price and value nearby the wedding at:
For a discounted rate, click here.
And for fun, here are a few alternatives:
Close to Wedding, very Special: Wythe Hotel
Close to Whitney, very Special: The Standard
Just Special: Hotel Chelsea
You deserve a Treat: Four Seasons Downtown
What about my kids?
They might enjoy the museum and are invited to Friday Night Food and Sunday Breakfast. The Wedding is for grown-ups only.
What about gifts?
We will never be able to tell you how grateful we are that you are taking the time to attend our wedding. That is gift enough- except that Bear would really like to see you dance your butts off on Saturday.
How do we get around?
We don’t have any group transport planned, but it’s a quick train ride from the Whitney to Williamsburg. If you’re staying at The Penny, it’s a nice walk or cheap car ride to the Wedding.
Wait, did I RSVP?
If you received the link to this site from us, then we have you confirmed for the Saturday Wedding. We’ll follow up later about confirming who is coming to the museum Friday and hanging out on Sunday.
What about food?
We’ll be contacting you soon to confirm any dietary restrictions.